Dumped for your weight???SMH!

I recently heard a plus sized woman discuss a long distance relationship, and how this was her dream guy who she just couldn’t seem to have due to living in different areas. Time passed, and they went without speaking to one another and then relinked-up.

 When he saw her, he was upset that she had lost weight and didn’t want to date her anymore.

Q: If you were in this situation, what would you do?


What Would You Do?

Q: What would do if you found out that the guy you’ve been dating, dated an old friend of yours whom you had lost touch with over the years? Would you end the relationship? Would you feel funny if you three ever ended up in the same room/ place together?

Strippers & Dancers

Dear Oh Ladies,

My man is constantly going to the strip club with his friends. He blows through hundreds of dollars and feel as if it’s okay. I even found one of the dancers number in his phone one time. He claims that it’s just what men do. How should I handle this?

Anti Stripper

Q: Is it okay for men to go to the strip club? How much money should they spend?

A: Anti Stripper,

This is a decision for couples to make together. Some people are okay with it, and some aren’t having it. Going to the strip club isn’t the problem. It’s what goes down while there that can cause chaos in the household. I don’t agree with spending all of the money on strippers, but it is a job. If you don’t want your man to engage in those type of activities, then express that to him. You both will have to work out what’s considered, “okay,” in the relationship. Once you both come to an agreement, you’ll be able to move forward from there. 

Until next time, OhLadies!